Thursday, September 11, 2008
When God Answers
Monday, September 8, 2008
Discerning God's Will--Part 1
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Thursday, September 4, 2008
Do We Honestly Expect God to Answer?
"We who line in a world of half-truths and rationalizations and intellectual gymnastics that keep us from hearing and obeying the word of Christ need to hear their witness. Because we live in a different culture, we must once again ask what it means to live faithful lives in our day. But we must ask fully expecting to receive an answer and fully expecting to be given the power to obey the call." (p.66, Foster)
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Expanding your Prayer Vocabulary through Prayer Books
One is The Book of Common Prayer
Another favorite prayer guide for me is the classic, A Diary of Private Prayer
Lastly, I find that a prayer book is a tangible trigger that moves me to praying more frequently and for longer periods of time. A prayer book tightens and tames my wandering focus. God deserves my very best in prayer and a prayer book moves me closer to that excellence. Blessings from The Practical Disciple.
Monday, September 1, 2008
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Sunday, August 31, 2008
More on Praise
Those lessons learned are the inspiration around the March 3rd post from earlier this year. That post sheds more light on the model, but if you really want to understand it better I recommend listening to the sequel sermon More on Praise. I hope this puts some practical teeth to the principles I shared with you in Praise Basics.
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Friday, August 29, 2008
Praise Basics
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Monday, August 25, 2008
Eradicating Spiritual Virus
Disobedience and neglect of God is like an awful virus slowly creeping into our lives. I am realizing more and more how much I need to spend time in self-examination as a sort of scan of the soul. This past Lent when I used the Book of Common Prayer to help me pray an hour a day, the model included a prayer of confession for each day. I tried to make sure that I did not rush through this. Just the act of saying something like, "I have sinned not only in what I have done, but what I have left undone. In thought, word and deed I have disobeyed You." caused me to slow down and think of the specific ways I had neglected God or my neighbor. The resulting peace I experienced by consistently having this practice in my life is hard to describe. I slept more soundly, functioned better, and most importantly my sense of intimacy with God swelled.
The near crash of my computer system has brought to my awareness my spiritual lack of diligence in consistently bringing before God the many attitudes, actions, and words that are simply wrong. Do you have any type of daily self-examination and confession time that you spend with God? If not, what could it look like? I suggest having something as a structure when you get started. A classic prayer of confession that I frequently prayed during my Lenten discipline went as follows:
Most Merciful God,
I confess that I have sinned against you
in thought, word, and deed,
by what I have done,
and by what I have left undone.
I have not loved You with my whole heart;
I have not loved my neighbor as myself.
I am truly sorry and I humbly repent.
For the sake of your Son Jesus Christ,
have mercy on me and forgive me;
that I may delight in your will,
and walk in your ways,
to the glory of your Name. Amen.
The key here is for the prayer to be a guide for holistically considering your faithfulness to God. Do not mindlessly mouth the words like some magic formula. Read the pray one phrase or word at a time pausing frequently. Consider each phrase and how it plays out specifically in your life. For example, what have been the specific thoughts, words, or deeds that you have done or left undone? How have you not loved God with your whole heart?
Self-examination and reflection will shape you. Over time the Holy Spirit will reveal just how great the gaps are in your life and help you through them. If confession like this has not been a regular part of your life, then I encourage you when you finish reading this post to take some time and try it using the above prayer.
Lastly, one benefit of using a form to prompt our reflection is that often times will cause you to reflect on issues you would neglect if you only prayed about whatever came to mind. Blessings to you from the Practical Disciple.
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
New Recommended Resource
One Bag Down
Stop and think about what you need to purge from your life. What do you need to get rid of to stop enabling yourself over and over again in some misguided behavior that you know is wrong. This morning I got rid of my tote bag. That doesn't sound so dramatic, but for me it is. As some of you will have read, my tote bag on Monday was so loaded with junk that it set off my passenger seat belt alarm. My tote bag enables me day in and day out to bring things from work to home and vice versa. These things are like silent burglar's entering our house. In little ways they steal valuable time and attention away from my family or they rob me of my peace. The peace theft is very subtle. Truth be told I actually work on very little out of my bag. That's where the peace thievery comes in. I bring it home self-deluded in thinking I am going to do something with it and then when I inevitably do not, I feel a sense of failure or guilt. The feeling isn't dramatic. I don't flog myself or enter into weeping or gnashing of teeth. Nevertheless, the whole delusional game is wrong.
Today I left my tote bag at home. I don't think my tote bag is going to cause my whole body to be thrown into hell, but it certainly isn't bringing more of heaven into my home. Today I went to work only carrying with me what I could carry in my open hands. I only brought what I knew I absolutely needed to act on. This evening I brought nothing home. The experience was both freeing and uncomfortable.
What is one piece of unnecessary baggage you could shed? What is the hand you need to cut off or the eye you need to remove? Do it. Just do it. Your bag may not be literal. Your bag may not be extraordinary or dramatic. Get rid of it. You may find the experience freeing, but don't be surprised if there is some discomfort as well. Purging involves breaking a relationship. Your connection to what you purged fed or met a need in your life. The withdrawal though is an investment in your relationship to God.
Blessing as you make this important step.
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Excess Baggage
The lesson came home to me again this morning as I transitioned back to work. I wrote a 'to do' list of epic proportions and crammed a tote bag full as I headed off to the office. Something nagged at me about both. It wasn't that I didn't want to do the things on my list. I think my discomfort was more how self-deluded the whole process seemed. Who am I kidding with my massive to-do list other than myself? And what purpose does it really hold?
God-incidentally, as I was driving to work thinking about writing a post on this phenomenon, my seat belt alarm spontaneously went off. The random alarm confused me at first and then I realized that my tote bag was so heavy that the passenger seat thought someone was sitting there. Good grief! Am I really carrying so much stuff it can be confused for another person? The sad answer is 'yes.'
So what to do? First, I am going to toss my to-do list as I currently have it. I am writing down five things that I know require my attention. When I am done with those I will renegotiate a list of three to five new things. I am going to see how that goes. I am thinking it will be very freeing in many ways.
The idea came to me from a new game I learned this past week called bananagrams. It's a game somewhat reminscent of Scrabble in which you race against other people creating crossword puzzles from lettered tiles. One afternoon I decided to make a massive crossword puzzle from all of the tiles. I would have been overwhelmed if I had flipped all of the tiles at once and tried to create the puzzle. Instead I started with a twenty one tiles and once every tile was used, I would draw seven more. If I couldn't figure out how to use a letter I would dump it, but had to draw three in its place. That gives you a high incentive not to dump. This is going to be my new to-do strategy. I will be doing five from my epic list and nothing gets considered until those five are done and then I will draw a new set. My traditional bottomless list that keeps getting re-configure is out of the picture for at least this week.
To me all of this boils down to--How do we practically live out Jesus instruction, "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." In a way my truncated list is a one day at a time approach. I am letting go of imposing unrealistic if not impossible expectations.
I would love to hear from any of you who have tamed the to-do list beast. I will report soon on my progress. Until then, I just finished one thing on my list and am moving on to the next. Blessings from The Practical Disciple.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Fighting Depression
First, I went to a counselor and he ran me through a diagnostic tool to see just where I ranked in terms of my depression. I was at a moderate to high level of depression. I tend to be a minimalist regarding medications, so I decided to make some lifestyle adjustments before resorting to medication. Although, I will be the first to say that had my depression been any worse I would have immediately sought an antidepressant. Specifically, regarding my lifestyle, I got very intentional about what I have dubbed my 'Core 4'. They are 1) Sleeping 2) Eating 3) Being physically active and 4) protecting significant relationships.
Sleep is a big one for me. It is the first to go if my system is out of whack and it is the one that once its gone precipitates everything else declining. I got very intentional about getting proper sleep. This meant changing some routines and sometimes using melatonin or some other supplement to help me rest.
Eating--I didn't become fanatically about a particular diet. I just increased my intake of water. Limited the amount of processed foods I took in and ate more frequently throughout the day. When depressed I found myself often times going long periods without eating or living out of fast food bags. That had to stop.
Being physically active--I didn't enter an exercise routine. That would have been unrealistic. The main thing was not being sedentary. I try to quicken my pace a bit when walking. I parked far away from entrances and started using stairs when I visited the hospital rather than using the elevator. I just made sure that I didn't stay immobolized.
Protecting significant relationship--I let people close to me know what was going on and tried to maintain regular contact. Depressed people often isolate. I didn't shove myself into too many social settings I didn't have to, but I made sure that I wasn't cutting myself off from friends.
God also blessed me with some grace in all of this. About the time I was struggling to figure out what was wrong, I felt called to introduce a recovery ministry to our church. This specific ministry was not limited to those suffering from chemical dependency. It was intended for anyone struggling with life, regardless of their particular hurt, habit or hang-up. This recovery ministry became a place of constant grace.
To all of you out there possibly suffering from depression. Get people praying for you. Let several people know what is going on. Get help if you need it and at the very least attend to your base line health. You are too important to be sucked down by depression. God needs you for other work and you can't do it when you are isolated, tired, and alone. If you are struggling with depression and you just aren't sure where to turn, please feel free to drop me a note on-line.
Blessings to you. God is bigger than any hurt you can have.
Friday, August 8, 2008
blogging from the road
Acts of Kindness
- Send flowers or a card anonymously
- Volunteer at a homeless shelter or soup kitchen
- Seek out a single parent and offer to baby-sit or do errands.
- Mow your neighbor's lawn when they aren't home or shovel his or her driveway in the winter.
- Clean up a neglected area in your neighborhood.
- Call the Church office and volunteer to help with a mailing or answering phones.
- Next time you go out to eat, ask the waitress for someone else's bill and anonymously buy a stranger's meal.
- Find a family in need of food and clothing and begin supplying part of that need. (tip...school counselors are often aware of these types of needs)
- Adopt someone home bound and visit, write, or call regularly.
- Invite people who are apart from family to be a part of yours on holidays.
- Volunteer at a community agency or non-profit group.
- Fix and extra special meal for your family.
You get the idea. Now come up with your own list. Start by listing 10 people who need an act of kindness right now. These can be friends, family members, co-workers, neighbors, or even strangers. You might wonder, "What strangers could I list?" What about people who work late shifts? Imagine the joy it would bring if you brought fresh baked cookies to a third shift in the Emergency room at the hospital or to some fire fighters.
Once you have your list. Schedule when you will do it. Great intentions mean nothing until they become great actions. You may be thinking I will just do random acts when they occur. That is great but you are more likely to achieve more if you have written plan.
Blessings to you as you seek to be a blessing to others.
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
The PD (practical disciple) is adding audio!
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Another Class of Treasure Hunter
What's this look like in the church? Some churches will say, "Hey, the Baptist Church added a gymnasium and they grew leaps and bounds." or "The Methodist Church is doing contemporary worship and they are busting out the seams." Then those churches will try to hop on that band wagon of success. If they adopt in early enough that may actually work. Frequently though, the church that took the first leap was responsive to a need that may or may not exist any longer. Or, it's meeting the need and there is not a need for other providers. I initially called these treasure hunters "coat-tailers." I think though that "wave riders" is a better term. They are trying to catch the wave of success, the only problem is waves have a life span. Eventually, a wave makes it to the beach and peters out. Wave riding can work if you catch the wave early enough, but it won't last forever.
Imitation of other people can be a valuable spiritual growth tool if we do it mindfully. Paul encouraged people to imitate his example. (2 Timothy 3:10-15.) The key is imitating the application of timeless principles rather than temporary trends. For example, building a gym in order to offer a basketball program may not be a valuable move if that need is already met in your community. On the other hand, recognizing an authentic need in the community and being responsive to it is a timeless principle.
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Links Added
Courtney recommends the book "Inner Simplicity" by Elaine St. James. It is now available in The Practical Disciple Resource Center.
Blessings from the Practical Disciple
Sunday, August 3, 2008
The Seven Minute Difference
First, I know Allyson and trust and admire her work. She is grounded in faith, has a caring heart and a rather amazing mind for how people learn, grow and move forward. She is a gifted financial manager and writer who knows her gifts and limitations. As I met with her this past Friday to discuss some investments I realized that I had really committed an injustice to my readers by not introducing her or her work earlier.
Second, the principles that Allyson explores and expands on are reliably true. If you read many of my blog post part of what you will begin to grasp is that spiritual growth is often best achieve through consistent incremental action--little steps taken repeatedly to enhance your faith. Alisson refines the practice of this principle very clearly in her work. I think you will that many of my suggestions to you hinge upon what Allyson describes as the seven minute difference.
Third, it is just so practical.
Well, check it out when you have a chance. Couple her theory and principles with my some of my suggested practices and you have a formula for incremental yet lasting and significant transformation in your life. God has blessed Allyson with some great insight and she shares the blessing well in The Seven Minute Difference.
So what is this Seven Minute Difference? I don't want to give it all away, but most significant changes aren't the result of radical sweeping actions, but rather they are the result of small decisions and actions repeatedly performed a few minutes here and there.
God's blessing to you as you step forward in faith.
Saturday, August 2, 2008
Quick 'trigger' suggestion
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Treasure Hunting
First, for those of you who are unfamiliar with the Crater of Diamonds State Park in Murfressboro, for a slight admission you enter the park, rent equipment and become a diamond miner. It's a bit like paying to pan for gold out west if you have ever done that. Anyways, getting to the parallels. I noticed that there are a spectrum of treasurer hunters. There are:
Dreamers--One woman picked around in the dirt for a bit and then laid down. Rightfully so. It was hot. Her daughter came along and asked her, "What'cha doin' mama?" Mama says without sitting up and with some laughter, "I am huntin' diamonds. I'ma gunna lay here. Fall asleep and dream about diamonds. Then I'ma gunna wake up and find them layin' in the dirt around me." She laughed and was very jovial about it all. Some in the church are dreamers. They show up hoping to find God. They will laugh and have a good time with friends and family. They aren't likely to invest much effort. Once the experience grows old, if they haven't found what they are looking for they will move on.
Pickers. Most the pickers where novice folks like me. They rent a shovel, bucket and some screens for sifting dirt. They don't really know what to do with the equipment, but mimic what they see or ask questions until they get it. They pick away at the dirt literally and figuratively. Their is a fair bit of camaraderie among pickers. They share collective bits of wisdom that may or may not be true. They lack much experience of their own, but are a bit more committed to searching than dreamers. They will rent the equipment, but are not likely to buy it. So they have limited investment but do put out some effort. They are in the church to.o They may attend Sunday School class or hit a retreat or two. They may do some service work to the church. But its not necessarily a big priority. They pick a good likely spot and give it a good try, but if something conflicts too heavily they are probably out of the picture.
Trawlers. These are the folks who walked up and down rows of ploughed field in the hope of finding a diamond lieing on the surface. They may pause momentarily to look at a clump of dirt like a likley suspect, but the never dig beneath the surface. Their strategy is to hopefully cover enough ground to happen across a diamond. In the church, trawlers bounce from activity to activity without ever really investing into anything to any depth. They are often times people who read alot, but don't necessarily apply what they learn. They jump from group to group and activity to activity hoping to stumble into a blessing.
The Serious Hobbiest. These people are invested. They own their own equipment and visit the park regularly. They have techniques for how they do what they do. They are head smart on diamonds and may even have experience finding some. Some of these folks know just enough to be annoying. Those serious hobbiest who do can even get a bit stand-offish to new people. Novices don't always take it as seriously in their eyes as they should.
Lastly are the Lifers. As you walk toward the field from the visitor center at the park on your left is a large plague in honor of a man named James Avers. Don't miss it. James when he retired spent six days a week mining diamonds. He worked at it for over 30 years. He loved it. It was his passion. He enthusiastically and generiously shared with anyone with half an interest. He was beloved and his face and name became nearly synonomous with diamond mining in Murfreesboro. Diamond mining was not something James did, it was who he was. He was a diamond miner. He found over 5000 diamonds and put his kids through college on those diamonds. Diamond mining was his life.
There are Christians like James. Their faith is not a casual interest or serious hobby. It is who they are. Their faith is their life. Their faith effects everything in their life. They are filled with Joy about it. They do not regret or begrudge a moment of time spent on it. They want others to share that joy.
I discovered something my day in the field. Treasure hunting is not a rational task. Expending your life treasure hunting is irrational. A merchant selling everything for a pearl is irrational. A man selling all he owns to own a field with a hidden treasure is not rational behavior. But to those who do it, there are no regrets and they could not imagine life any richer.
What kind of treasure hunter are you?
