More on God-incidents

My most recent post drew a couple of comments and a few direct contacts regarding God-incidents. It obviously struck a chord with some folks, so it seems worthy of more attention. My prior post was about responding to God-incidents. I feel the need to back up and address recognizing God incidents.

When I say God incident I am referring to those revelatory moments when we recognize what could be considered random events as actually God's activity in our lives. We can actively hone our awareness of these moments. The first step in recognizing something is knowing what you are looking for specifically. That may sound simplistic, but how often do we put things before God that are so broad and generic that even if God responds, we may not be able to recognize the answer. We say something like "God what do you want me to do with my life?" or "God help me find a spouse?" Learning to be more specific in our conversation with God is one helpful key in moving toward greater discernment. Get more specific with questions like, "God could you give me some indication of whether or not I need to stay in my current job?" or even, "God indicate or open some doors for me to move through, if it is your desire for me to shift away from what I am doing now."

A second key to this whole discernment process is being very open to whatever response God may give you. I call this holding a pray in an open hand. What I mean by an open hand is that you don't cling to an expected response. You lift upto God your desire or question, but you don't cling to some fore drawn conclusion. When we lift up very specific requests, I find that some times we already know what we want as God's response, so we are only looking for our expectation. God seems to frequently exceed my expectation or at least respond in some oblique way I never anticipated. Trust is necessary. To me the perfect biblical example of this is Jesus in the Garden of Gethesemane. He comes before God with a very specific request--"Let this cup pass from me." But he holds it in a open hand, "Not my will be done, but thine."

Third, we actively intentional look for God's response. How many times have you prayed for God's guidance, but not bothered to then just sit and listen for a response from God? I must confess that too often I will ask for guidance and then just move right on to the next things in my prayer list. Learn to pause and listen. By listen I mean let go of other thoughts tugging at you. Pay attention to the images, memories, events, and/or people that come to mind as you quietly set with God and the concern of your heart. Do those things seem significant to your prayer. If so, how are they significant. Also, learn to look back on a day or week and say, "How do I think God has responded to my prayer?"

These are invaluable skills to help hone your awareness. I will share more in my next blog post so stayed tuned. Thank you, The Practical Disciple, John Arnold